The Amira Triangle Cowl and Pattern

The Amira Triangle Cowl and Pattern

Whether you’re an experienced crocheter or just picking up a hook for the first time, the Amira Scarf pattern is here to bring warmth, texture, and effortless elegance to your wardrobe.

The Design

The Amira is a triangle cowl scarf that combines classic stitches with modern styling. It hugs the neckline like a cozy shawl, but wears like a cowl — no fiddling, no slipping off your shoulders, and no need to tie it. It’s finished with lush fringe for a bohemian flair that moves beautifully and adds interest to even the simplest outfit.

You can wear it over a chunky sweater, under your favorite coat, or as a statement piece with a plain tee — it’s as versatile as it is beautiful.

The Yarn

This pattern looks stunning in variegated yarns and natural tones, like the earthy gray-green ombre shown in our samples, or a solid color for a more minimalist look. Use any worsted-weight yarn that speaks to your personal style.

Easy-to-Follow Pattern

The Amira Scarf pattern is written with clarity and flexibility in mind:

  • Skill Level: Advanced Beginner

  • Techniques: Basic increases, double crochet, half double crochet, mesh stitching

  • Includes: Full written instructions, stitch counts, and tips for adding fringe

  • Bonus: It’s easily adjustable in size!

Where to Find It

You can grab the Amira Triangle Scarf Pattern soon on Etsy at designbcb. Whether you’re making one for yourself or creating heartfelt handmade gifts, the Amira Scarf is sure to be a favorite project.

✨ Stay cozy and creative. ✨

The One Minute Rule

The one minute rule is the first ‘Try This at Home’ suggestion on the Happier podcast.

The one minute rule is simple: if there’s something that can be taken care of in a minute (or two) then just take care of it. For example, if the mail is piling up on the table and it would take just a minute or two to go through it – then take the minute or two and wipe it off the to do list.

Keep in mind this first episode of the podcast was ten years ago. This advice came out in 2015 though I heard it May. That being said, this was a rule I had already started before reading it in the blog. One of the things I found is between the time I tell Mr. Honey dinner is ready and he comes to the dining room, fixes the drinks and seats himself at the table, there are enough minutes for me to wash the pots, skillets or pans I used to make dinner. 

It actually feels good knowing when dinner is done all I have to do is put two dishes, glasses, forks and knives in the dishwasher and turn off the lights.

The one minute rules keeps procrastination from taking over and it does a great job silencing that voice in my head urging me to sit it out instead of taking action. I would surely have taken them up on this tip if I didn’t already do it.

Yarn Goddess Tote Bag

The first Yarn Goddess tote bag is now available at Abbey & Lincoln!

 

If you’ve ever felt like crafting was more than just a hobby — more like a ritual, a meditation, a form of expression — this one’s for you.

I’m thrilled to introduce my newest release: the Yarn Goddess Tote Bag — a celebration of creativity, color, and the quiet magic of handmade art.

🌟 The Story Behind the Design

The idea came to me as I was reflecting on how so many of us — knitters, crocheters, weavers, stitchers — transform simple strands of yarn into something beautiful, functional, and heartfelt. In that moment, I imagined a goddess whose very crown was made of vibrant yarns — the ultimate maker, the muse behind every project.

This tote is my tribute to her. To us.


👜 Tote Details You’ll Love

  • Striking, original design on both sides:

    • One side features the Yarn Goddess — regal, radiant, and crowned in color.

    • The other side shares a poem close to my heart:

      I gather threads.
      I shape them into warmth.
      Each loop, a quiet spell.
      Each knot, a memory.
      I make what was never there.

  • Durable and roomy: Whether you’re hauling yarn to a stitch night, books to a book club, or groceries for the week — this bag is up for it.

  • Printed sustainably, made to order with love and care.


✨ A Bag for the Creators

The Yarn Goddess tote is more than just a pretty accessory — it’s a reminder of who you are when your hands are making, your mind is quiet, and your spirit is full. Carry it as a badge of honor, a source of inspiration, and a love letter to the creative soul in you.


💬 I’d Love to Hear from You

What does your creative process feel like? Do you have a “goddess mode” when you knit or crochet?

Drop a comment or tag me on Instagram @yo

A More Perfect Day

A More Perfect Day (Not a Perfect One)

A while back, I read this article in Simplify magazine by Gretchen Rubin about happiness. Ever since, I’ve kind of been on the lookout for my own little happiness project. I didn’t know what it would be — but I figured I’d know it when I saw it.

Recently, the idea came back around, and I thought: What if, instead of chasing some grand, perfect life overhaul, I just tried to make my regular old day a little better? Not perfect. Just more perfect.

So, I grabbed a notebook and started jotting down what would need to happen in a day for me to feel good about it. Turns out, it boiled down to four things:
Environment, Financial, Physical, and Spiritual.

  • Environment: clean a space somewhere in the house

  • Financial: track what money’s coming in and going out

  • Physical: move my body somehow

  • Spiritual: listen to or read something that fills me up — not necessarily religious, just something good for the soul

I started making these my daily anchors. Now, more than 40 days in, I can honestly say my days feel better. My house isn’t spotless (let’s not get carried away), but I can walk into any room without instantly feeling stressed about the clutter. I’ve become a lot more aware of where my money goes — and even made a few decisions that’ll save me a nice chunk in the long run.

I’m still not working out like a fitness influencer, but I move every day. And somewhere along the way, I discovered Gretchen Rubin has a podcast called Happier. It’s been around for a decade and I’ve started from episode one. Each show kicks off with a little tip called Try This at Home, and a lot of the time, I realize I’m already doing some of the things they suggest. It feels good to hear, like a little nudge of “You’re on the right track.”

What I really love is that the podcast is called Happier — not Happy. Just like I’m after a more perfect day, not a perfect one. It’s a journey, not a finish line. And even though both Gretchen and her sister Elizabeth (who co-hosts) are high achievers they are not perfect and they own their shortcomings in a way I appreciate.

In fact, I’m officially declaring myself a Happier Guru. I’m going to check in here every so often and share what I’m learning about crafting a more perfect day — whether it’s from the podcast, an article, or just life doing its thing.

Oh — and I’m dusting off my old Simplify magazine issues too. I have a lifetime subscription (because of course I do) and naturally, I’ll start reading from the beginning. That’s just how I roll.

Another thing: when I first made my little list of what a more perfect day looked like, I was surprised to realize that knitting, crocheting, and being creative didn’t make the cut. It took me a couple of days to notice. I thought about squeezing it in, but it didn’t come up naturally, so I left it out. And you know what? I still knit and crochet — it’s my job — but I enjoy it more now that it isn’t constantly front and center in my brain. Deadlines and orders still exist, but I’m better at shaking off the stress when it creeps in. That, my friends, makes for a more perfect day.

Also, I didn’t originally put relationships on the list either. But if I’m being honest, Mr. Honey (that’s my husband, for those of you new here) is one of the reasons this all started. He casually mentioned something about my finances (nothing bad) and something about my eating habits (definitely bad) — and it made me pause. Made me reevaluate. And whether he knows it or not, I’m better for it. We’re better for it.

So that’s where I am. I’ll keep chasing happier, one imperfectly perfect day at a time. And if you feel like joining me — come on. We’re in this together.

Stay tuned.

Fresh From the Earth Gift Pack

 Fresh From the Earth Gift Pack

There’s something grounding about reconnecting with nature — whether it’s tending to a garden, walking barefoot in the grass, or sipping your morning coffee under the open sky. Inspired by those simple, restorative moments, our Fresh From the Earth collection was created to bring a little of that earthy goodness into your everyday life.

👜 Fresh From the Earth Tote Bag

Perfect for farmers’ markets, library runs, grocery hauls, or just toting around your daily essentials, our Fresh From the Earth Tote Bag is a statement piece for the eco-conscious soul. Made from durable 100% cotton, this roomy tote features bold, modern typography and a rustic color palette that feels effortlessly chic.

Why you’ll love it:

  • Sturdy cotton canvas construction

  • Eco-friendly and reusable

  • Spacious interior for all your market finds and everyday carry

  • Clean, minimalist design that pairs perfectly with casual looks

🛒 Shop the tote here


👕 Fresh From the Earth Sweatshirt

Stay cozy and grounded in our Fresh From the Earth Sweatshirt, designed with the same earthy vibe in a soft, cozy pullover. It’s the kind of layer you’ll want to throw on for cool evening walks, trips to the farmers’ market, or weekend lounging. The crisp text graphic makes a clean, modern statement without feeling overdone.

Available in a range of sizes and colors to suit your style.

🛒 Grab your sweatshirt here


☕ Fresh From the Earth Mug

And for those quiet morning moments, our Fresh From the Earth Mug is the perfect companion. Whether it’s your sunrise coffee, afternoon tea, or evening cocoa, this sturdy ceramic mug adds a little nature-loving joy to your cup.

Dishwasher and microwave safe, with a beautiful clean design you’ll love using every day.

🛒 Snag your mug here


🌸 Build Your Own Earth-Loving Set

We love the idea of mixing and matching these pieces — pair the tote with the sweatshirt for your weekend errands, or gift a set to the nature-lover in your life.

The Fresh From the Earth collection was made for those who appreciate life’s simple, natural moments — and love showing it off in style.


Ready to embrace your earthy side?
Explore the whole collection in my shop and bring a little nature everywhere you go. 🌿

#FreshFromTheEarth #NatureInspiredStyle #EcoFriendlyLiving #EtsyFinds #ToteBagLove #ModernRustic

A Stitch and a Prayer

A Stitch and a prayer. Knitting and crochet does that for me.

Knitting and Crochet as a Form of Prayer: Stitching with Intention and Faith

Knitting and crochet aren’t just creative hobbies — for many, they’re deeply spiritual practices. These crafts offer a beautiful way to slow down, quiet the mind, and connect with God through the meditative rhythm of stitches and patterns. Whether you’re crafting for yourself, a loved one, or someone in need, every loop and knot can carry a prayer, a blessing, or a moment of reflection.

The Spiritual Roots of Fiber Arts

Throughout history, women and men alike have used handiwork as a means of contemplation and prayer. From monks weaving textiles in monasteries to generations of grandmothers knitting blankets with prayers for each family member, fiber arts have long been intertwined with faith and intention.

Many cultures consider the act of making something by hand as a sacred activity — a tangible way to pour love, care, and blessings into an object destined to bring comfort and warmth.

How Knitting and Crochet Can Become Prayerful Practices

Turning your knitting or crochet into a form of prayer is simpler than you might think. Here are a few gentle ways to infuse your stitching time with spiritual meaning:

1. Begin with Prayer or Intention

Before you start, pause for a moment of silence or offer a simple prayer. Ask for peace, healing, or strength — whether for yourself or for the recipient of your project.

2. Stitch with Intention

As you work, dedicate each stitch to a specific thought or prayer. You might repeat a scripture verse, a mantra, or a simple blessing as your hands move. For example:

  • “Peace be with you.”
  • “God’s love surrounds you.”
  • “Heal and strengthen.”

3. Use Your Time for Reflection

The quiet rhythm of stitching makes it a perfect time for meditating on scripture, reflecting on blessings, or simply sitting in God’s presence.

4. Craft for a Cause

Many crafters create items for hospitals, shelters, or prayer shawl ministries. Knowing that your work will comfort someone in need adds a layer of compassion and purpose to your stitching.

5. Close with Gratitude

When you finish a session or a project, offer a prayer of thanks for the time, resources, and ability to create something with love and care.

The Prayer Shawl Ministry

One beautiful example of this practice is the Prayer Shawl Ministry, where volunteers knit or crochet shawls to be given to those going through illness, grief, or major life changes. Each shawl is made with prayerful intention and often blessed before being delivered.

This ministry reminds us that handmade items can be more than beautiful — they can be vessels of God’s love and comfort.

Final Thoughts

In our busy, modern lives, finding stillness and connection with God can be a challenge. Knitting and crochet offer a gentle, creative way to weave prayer into your daily routine. Whether it’s a few quiet stitches before bed, a project made for a friend, or a shawl destined for a stranger, every stitch can become a simple, sacred act.

Have you ever used knitting or crochet as a form of prayer or meditation? I’d love to hear your story in the comments!

The Selah Sweatshirt

Pause and Reflect in Style: The SELAH Sweatshirt

There are moments in life when we just need to pause. To breathe. To reflect. That’s the spirit behind our SELAH sweatshirt — a cozy, meaningful piece designed to remind you (and those around you) to slow down and find peace in the pause.

Inspired by the biblical word “Selah,” often used in the Psalms, this sweatshirt carries a message of sacred stillness and intentional reflection. Whether you wear it for comfort, fashion, or spiritual grounding, it’s a statement piece that speaks without shouting.

What Makes It Special?

Bold Yet Meaningful Design
The word SELAH is printed in an eye-catching, multi-colored gradient that pops beautifully against the classic black background. It’s visually striking while still keeping things grounded and versatile.

👕 Sleeve Detail That Can Say What You Want
Down the sleeve, select your name or a word or phrase that calms and centers you: Breathe, Beloved, Blessed.

🖤 Comfort You Can Live In
Made from a soft, high-quality cotton blend, this sweatshirt is perfect for layering, lounging, or living your everyday life with a bit more intention. It’s unisex and fits true to size, so everyone can find their perfect pause.

Shop the SELAH Sweatshirt on Etsy

Whether you’re heading to Bible study, journaling on a quiet morning, or just running errands, the SELAH sweatshirt is here to wrap you in calm — body and soul.

Let your clothing say what your spirit knows: sometimes the holiest thing you can do is pause.

The Sweet as Honey Tote Bag

The Sweet as Honey tote bag that can go with the sweatshirt!

Y’all know I loves me a tote bag and what better one that can pair with a cozy sweatshirt? Meet the Sweet as Honey Tote Bag—a stylish blend of nature-inspired beauty and functional design. Whether you’re heading to the farmer’s market, running errands, or just out for a casual day, this tote is the perfect companion to carry everything you need with ease.

Why You’ll Love It

🐝 Bee-utiful Design – The backdrop highlights a warm honey jar, golden drizzles, and buzzing bees, creating a delightful, nature-inspired aesthetic that’s sure to turn heads.

👜 Spacious & Sturdy – Made with high-quality materials, this tote is built to handle your daily essentials while keeping you looking effortlessly stylish. Comes in three sizes with a choice of 5 handle colors

🌱 Eco-Friendly Choice – Skip the plastic bags and opt for a reusable tote that aligns with your love for sustainability and nature.

The Perfect Gift for Nature Lovers

Know someone who adores bees, honey, or all things sweet? This tote makes a thoughtful gift for birthdays, Mother’s Day, or just because! It’s perfect for anyone who appreciates a little natural charm in their everyday accessories.

Get Yours Today!

Ready to add some sweetness to your style? Grab your Sweet as Honey Tote Bag now and carry a little bit of nature’s magic with you wherever you go. Get it here.

Feather & Fan Drop Stitch Scarf

Feather and Fan Drop Stitch Scarf from designbcb

Introducing the Feather & Fan Drop Stitch Scarf

If you’re looking for a statement scarf that blends timeless lacework with modern texture, the Feather & Fan Drop Stitch Scarf is the perfect addition to your wardrobe. Crafted with a delicate yet eye-catching pattern, this scarf effortlessly elevates any outfit with its flowing waves and airy design.

A Classic Pattern with a Contemporary Twist

Feather & Fan is a beloved lace knitting pattern known for its elegant, undulating waves. By incorporating drop stitches, this scarf takes on a more dramatic, open look, making it both lightweight and striking. Measuring 8″ x 60″, it’s the ideal length to drape gracefully over your shoulders or wrap snugly around your neck for warmth.

Made for Comfort and Style

This scarf is made with 100% acrylic yarn, ensuring a soft touch and easy care. It’s perfect for transitional weather, offering warmth without being too heavy. The addition of long, flowing fringe adds a boho-chic touch, making it a versatile accessory for any occasion.

Coming Soon: The Pattern Release

For fellow knitters, an exciting update: the pattern for this scarf will be available soon! Whether you’re an intermediate knitter looking for a rewarding project or an experienced crafter seeking a beautiful and relaxing knit, this pattern is sure to become a favorite.

Stay tuned for updates on the pattern release and grab your own handcrafted Feather & Fan Drop Stitch Scarf today on Etsy! Check it out here.

Knit vs. Crochet

Knit vs. Crochet: Which Came First, Which Is Easier, and What Are People Searching For?

Knitting and crochet are two beloved fiber arts that have been passed down through generations, each offering its own unique benefits. Whether you’re a beginner trying to decide which to learn first or a seasoned crafter looking for new inspiration, understanding the history, ease of learning, and what people search for can help deepen your appreciation for both crafts.

Which Came First: Knitting or Crochet?

If you’ve ever wondered about the origins of knitting and crochet, the answer might surprise you! Knitting is the older of the two, with historical evidence dating back to at least the 3rd to 5th centuries CE. Some of the earliest knitted artifacts, such as intricately patterned cotton socks, were discovered in Egypt. These items were created using a technique similar to modern-day two-needle knitting.

Crochet, by contrast, is a younger craft that emerged in Europe during the 19th century. It likely evolved from tambour embroidery, a technique that used a hooked needle to create a chain-stitch design on fabric. While knitting boasts a much longer history, crochet has developed its own strong following and unique artistic contributions over the years.

Which Is Easier: Knitting or Crochet?

The answer to this question depends on personal preference, but many beginners find crochet easier to pick up. Here’s why:

Why Crochet Is Often Considered Easier:

  • Uses one hook instead of two needles, making it less intimidating for beginners.
  • Easier to fix mistakes since only one active loop is in play at a time.
  • Works up faster because crochet stitches tend to be taller and looser.
  • More flexible and forgiving, making it great for freeform designs.

Why Knitting Can Be More Challenging:

  • Requires more precision, as multiple stitches remain on the needles at once.
  • Fixing mistakes (like dropped stitches) can be trickier.
  • Takes longer for large projects since knitting stitches are generally smaller and more compact.
  • Provides a more structured and drapey fabric, ideal for garments.

What Are People Searching for When They Look Up Knitting or Crochet?

Online searches for knitting and crochet often fall into these key categories:

1. Patterns and Tutorials

Crafters frequently look for inspiration and guidance by searching for terms like “knitting patterns,” “crochet patterns,” “how to crochet a blanket,” or “easy knitting scarf pattern.” (Find my patterns here.)

2. Tools and Materials

Before starting a project, many search for the best supplies, such as “best crochet hooks for beginners” or “knitting needles for sweaters.”

3. Techniques and Skill Development

Learning new skills is a major reason people turn to online searches, with common queries including “how to fix a dropped stitch in knitting” or “how to crochet in the round.”

4. Community and Social Engagement

Many knitters and crocheters seek support, friendship, and inspiration from others, searching for “knitting groups near me” or “best crochet forums.”

5. Handmade Product Shopping

Some searches are from consumers looking to buy finished handmade goods, such as “hand-knit scarves for sale” or “crochet blankets Etsy.”

Final Thoughts

Both knitting and crochet have rich histories, unique advantages, and a passionate global following. Whether you choose to knit, crochet, or do both, the joy of creating handmade pieces is what truly matters. And with the vast amount of online resources available, there’s never been a better time to dive into the fiber arts world!

Do you prefer knitting, crochet, or both? Let us know in the comments!